Sunday, December 7, 2014

Mother Loses Custody After Preventing Father From From Seeing Child

that's it. I've reached my limit.

The following Facebook status describes how many many people feel on a daily basis when involved in the "Divorce/ Family Law Industry". Everyone (men & women) that can relate to this status, needs the support of family, friends, professionals (counselors, doctors, politicians....) although no one can totally understand the feelings of despair, failure, hopelessness, disbelief, defeat, loss, grief, being overwhelmed, frustration, suicidal; those that live it everyday need answers that no one seems to have. It takes immeasurable strength, energy and supports just to survive each and every day. The "Divorce/ Family Law Industry" is for the benefit of the industry and takes no prisoners, it is not as simple as 50/50 as many would believe, it is brutal, destroying and very dangerous. Please reach out and support those around you that are being " Destroyed by the Corrupt System" and help in any way you can...you may just be the key to someones survival.

This is one woman's Facebook status......

Ok, that's it. I've reached my limit. Period. I can't take the injustice and evil anymore. I don't think anything anyone says at this point will help. All of the ongoing abuse has gotten the best of me. I still can't reach the ladder to climb out of the well in order to help myself and now it has only gotten worse. I need physical/tangible help, not just words. I did a good job hiding my pain over the Thanksgiving holiday (besides sleeping in a lot), but now I'm in worse shape. I didn't eat all day today. I feel like I'm screaming and nobody hears a sound. I don't know what to do. Most people will ignore this post because it is too much to handle. I keep telling my parents I'm not ok, but they don't understand. "Just snap out of it". Well, I can't. I'm done.




 Please reach out and support those around you that are being " Destroyed by the Corrupt System" and help in any way you can...you may just be the key to someones survival.

Friday, November 14, 2014

Abusers diminish legitimate male issues

Abusers diminish legitimate male issues


The Globe and Mail

Thursday, July 3, 2014

Legal Aid hopes to discourage feuding couples from acting as own lawyers

Legal Aid Ontario is embarking on a significant expansion of legal services in family law that could chip away at the swelling masses of self-represented litigants and steer couples away from lengthy court battles.
A pair of programs, which will be announced Thursday, will offer financially eligible couples free access to a family lawyer to negotiate separation agreements and provide legal advice for mediation.

http://www.thestar.com/news/gta/2014/07/03/legal_aid_hopes_to_discourage_feuding_couples_from_acting_as_own_lawyers.html

Monday, May 12, 2014

Ideology and Dysfunction in Family Law

This book should be mandatory reading for Politician's, Lawyer's, Judge's and everyone thinking of getting involved in the Corrupt Family Law System 



Ideology and Dysfunction in Family Law

Wednesday, April 30, 2014

Missing Hamilton man found safe

Missing Hamilton man found safe

The 44-year-old father of two left home after losing custody of his children, friends and family said.

Tuesday, April 1, 2014

Friday, March 14, 2014

Brantford Lawyer accused of second scandal


Brantford Lawyer accused of second scandal

On February 26, 2014 I made a video called “Notice Given: If You Lie about Men I Will Expose Your Lies”
The video was made as a direct result of what I witnessed in a case before the Brantford Ontario Courts. In the video I mention Tom, a regular guy who is going through a pretty tough custody battle.
Tom alleges that his ex-wife’s lawyer, David Maltby, has acted dishonestly in the case and that he has intentionally obstructed Tom’s efforts to achieve a just resolution to the matter. Tom claims that Maltby has intentionally entered false information on court forms; delivered court documents to the wrong address outside of the prescribed time; and that his ex, Cindy, made it difficult for him to visit his child.
While Tom’s allegations are yet to be tested in a court of law, Maltby (a Brantford lawyer whose main areas of practice are family, real estate and civil litigation) has acted unprofessionally before. Maltby was found guilty by the Law Society of Upper Canada of misleading a client and delaying delivery of legal documents to a second lawyer the client hired. According to Maltby, “I delayed the case although it was commenced through another lawyer. I acknowledged what I did and admitted I had not served my client well.” Maltby had lied to his client over the course of SIX YEARS, telling her that he was working on her behalf (while under retainer) despite the fact that he hadn’t begun any legal action.
That case was originally covered by Susan Gamble, of the Brantford Expositer.
Read more at the above link

Reposted with permision,Thanks to Men's Human Rights Ontario ← Equality For All
http://www.mhro.ca/

Saturday, March 1, 2014

The Risks of Self Representation

The Risks of Self Representation

Recently an individual represented himself in a wrongful action before the Ontario Court of Appeal. He was appealing the decision of Mr. Justice Morgan from November 28, 2012 dismissing the action [Musoni v. Logitek Technology Ltd., 2012 ONSC 6782].
The decision of Morgan J. outlines a number of other proceedings brought by Musoni, including a complaint against a lawyer who had been referred to him by the defendant, as well as a human rights application.
No mention was made in either judgment of what have been found to be fatal errors in termination clauses of this sort in numerous other judgments. Whether or not the trial court and/or the Court of Appeal were made aware of the clear law in this area they neither discussed nor applied it. Clearly, Musoni was not aware of it.
Musoni had costs awarded against him both at trial and at the Court of Appeal. According to the facts as articulated by Morgan J., he should have won!
In Canadian law, a reasonable apprehension of bias is a legal standard for disqualifying judges and administrative decision-makers for bias. Bias of the decision-maker can be real or merely perceived.
I am constantly hearing that "ignorance of the law is no defence". In my opinion, one would expect that the Judges and Courts would be knowledgable in All of the Law and apply it equally no matter what.

Thursday, February 13, 2014

Self-representation dilemma 1 Those who attempt to litigate for themselves face obstacles in our court system

As might be expected, the most consistently provided reason for going it alone in court relates to affordability issues. Lawyers are too expensive and many can’t afford to retain a lawyer. That’s not surprising with hourly rates often $350 and up. Retainers of $5,000 and up are not uncommon. But more disheartening is the dissatisfaction about the quality of services rendered by lawyers.

http://www.torontosun.com/2013/06/07/self-representation-dilemma

“I think I would tell them this is a system that has worked for 200 years and I believe that it is the best system that we could have.”
At a provincial bar association conference last summer, I challenged a group of lawyers about how might we talk to the public about the access to justice crisis.

 Why is Acknowledging and Talking about the A2J Problem with the Public So Hard?

Wednesday, February 5, 2014


Access to justice: Help coming for people headed to Canada's civil and family courts